A parent who lost a partner to cancer was left with two children has told of the priceless
support they received from Daisy’s Dream which helps youngsters who have lost their mum or dad.
They were among several who nominated the organisation for Charity of the Year.
The parent told how their partner Maddie passed away at the young age of 37 due to cervical cancer, leaving two children aged six and 16.
“I remember how I felt at the time and the thoughts and worries that went through my head,” they said.
“Daisy’s Dream visited within a few days and helped me to plan, cope with the current emotions and ultimately learn to ask for help.”
They also visited the teenager at school “many times which was priceless and such a support. “Without Daisy’s Dream I’m not sure where I would be today but I have managed to cope.”
An employee at a Reading School told how Daisy’s Dream has supported a number of pupils who have lost a parent.
“They come into school and do 1:2:1 therapeutic sessions which gives the children time to talk about their experiences.
“The sessions are free so there is no additional financial pressure put on grieving families. They are only a small charity but they are absolutely invaluable to the Reading community,” they said.
“The Therapeutic Practitioner who comes in to visit us is called Mandie Woolmer. She is so kind, she brings in biscuits for the children to decorate and memory boxes to make.”
After winning the award, Mandie Woolmer, practitioner, said: “We’re in genuine shock. We love what we do.
“It’s such an honour to be able to walk alongside people in their darkest hour.
“We are invited in, and are so honoured to be able to do that, and to help to make a difference.”
Laura Lewis, CEO, added: “It’s a privilege.
“At Daisy’s Dream, the team is amazing.
“We’re the sort of charity you never want to have to use – but sometimes you do have to.
“This award is so special for us.
“It recognises not only our fantastic team, but also the families who have invited us into their lives – a big thank you to them.
“Our team is a wonderful, dedicated and compassionate group of people.
“You have to be a very special type of person to take people’s sadness, and to translate it into positivity.
“And that’s what we’re there for – we hold people, and get them through a very tough time.”
Andy, a parent who received help from Daisy’s Dream, nominated the charity.
He said: “They were part of my life nine years ago, and they still are now.
“If it wasn’t for them, my two daughters Maddie and Chloe and myself wouldn’t be where we are now.
When the girls lost their mum Maddie was just six. I was just a bloke – now on my own with the girls – unsure what to do next and how to support them.
“I had loads of questions, and then Daisy’s Dream came in and calmed everything down, while still keeping it real.
“We’ve just had the ninth anniversary of losing Mel, and I’m able to give myself a little pat on the back thanks to this fantastic charity for helping us to be in the place we are today.
“There have been some dark times, but Daisy’s Dream helped me on my feet when I needed them.
“It’s our 30th anniversary next year,” said Laura.
“This award is going to kick-start the celebrations.
“It’s a lovely way to thank the community for supporting us.”
